.067 Tashween Ali

Tashween and I met in a crowded bar in the East Village. She had gathered a bunch of different friends and acquaintances as part of a monthly get-to-know-other-people series of sorts, and my boyfriend had prepped me that she was one of his first NY friends and a true sweetheart. The fact that she hosted this event in many ways tells you who Tashween is: an empathetic connector, someone who is deeply interested in meaningful conversations and friendships.

As we spoke that night, and over the last few years, I quickly realized just how special Tashween is. She’s beloved, as evidenced by the incredible group of people she surrounds herself with who are always present at her gatherings, whether they be holiday themed, pasta-making moments, or backyard bonfires. She’s ridiculously smart, always able and willing to chat about any topic no matter how detailed or not. She’s always looking out for you and wants to make sure you’re doing well or having a good time. She seems to have this instinct to take care of people and never asks for anything in return. She’s kind, gentle and extremely witty. She’s honest, forthright and leads a beautiful and accomplished life. Tashween is a wonderful example of what it means to be a good friend.

Tashween, thank you first and foremost for providing Alejandro so much joy and respect through your friendship. Thank you for welcoming me into your life and for all the tasty, laughter-filled moments we’ve shared at your apartment(s) and backyard! Thank you for always being so positive and geared toward truth and honesty. I’m so grateful that we’ve met and become friends, and to have you in my corner. You’re a gorgeous human being who deserves all the love and light back that you constantly put out into the world. Thank you, Tashween, for being you!

-BD