.072 Cathryn Walker
At a time when things feel tough and grim, Cathryn is a reminder of all the good and beauty in the world. She is light years beyond all of us when it comes to empathy, intelligence and patience, and speaking with her is a stark reminder of how being good to people is always what matters most. We met over three years ago because she’s one of my boyfriend’s best friends and I can still recall the feeling of watching all of his descriptors for her match and then be exceeded, one by one.
Cathryn is incredibly smart, constantly and effortlessly showing it through her conversation, her perspectives and her ability to listen, deeply, with intent. She’s kind from the start and treats everyone in her life with true dignity and respect. As I mentioned earlier, she’s one step ahead, all the time, and she matches her determination with a staggering drive to do better and be better. Cathryn is also resilient, never ceasing to amaze me with her strength and courage as she deals with all that life throws at her, no matter how big or small the obstacle. To describe her as laser-focused, trustworthy and loyal would all be an understatement. Above all to me, she’s a phenomenal friend. She’s an expert at checking in and always knows the right thing to say, or not say. She’s there for you through everything and she genuinely means it when she offers assistance or support. It seems as though whenever the world feels like it’s spinning too fast (or chaotically), Cathryn pops in to remind me (us) what goodness means and how we can all take a deep breath and move forward together.
Cathryn, thank you so much for being an absolute rock for Alejandro. You bring him immense joy and perspective and he is truly a better human because you are in his life (same with me!). Thank you for making us all laugh with your acutely accurate presentations and jokes and thank you for always showing up. Your presence at the C&C conversations means more than you know. Thank you for showing up though in every other way, too, be it through a sweet birthday bottle delivery or by lending us your apartment when the guys and gals needed to practice choreo for the drag show when you hurt your foot. Thank you for being such a bright light that constantly shines on us, reminding us to keep moving and to keep our heads up.
You’re a truly wonderful human being, Cathryn, and we’re all lucky to have you in our worlds. Thank you for being exactly who you are, all of the time.
-BD