.009 Emily Parker

There’s only been a few people in my life who feel as though we were truly destined to cross paths. Emily is one of those humans. We met in the humid, late night air of Bangkok because a friend from college doing her Fulbright there introduced me to her fellow cohort. Emily immediately stood out to me. She’s someone who captures your attention not by being loud or in your face. She gets you because she listens, she has the most soothing energy you’ll come across, and she is basically the human embodiment of a warm, reassuring hug.

Emily really is a special type of person. She’s incredibly grounded, humble, and wise. Every thought and action is well-intended, intelligent, and taken with care. She’s unique in the sense that there may be traits of hers that remind you of others, but her whole self is a personality you’ve never met before, and my oh my is it refreshing. She gives wonderful feedback, expert advice, and is just an all-around comforting person to be around. I also want to add that her laugh is so wildly contagious, and as we spoke on the phone this evening we reminded each other of the time we laughed uncontrollably while getting a food scrub in Thailand. This moment came after nearly a month of getting to know each other through deep, raw and vulnerable discussions and conversations in the glow of streetlights and on the roof of the housing building the group was in. That month or so is a chunk of time that I am immensely grateful for, and look back upon often, with a smile.

Emily, my goodness. Thank you for being such a vibrant soul who makes me feel so connected and sane. Thank you for being so open with me and for allowing our friendship to blossom so greatly and quickly. You came into my life when I really needed a kind and compassionate companion, and for that I am so truly grateful. Thank you for always rooted in your morals and values and for living such a beautiful and courageous life. Thank you for making others feel welcomed and for being my friend. Thank you for being you.

-BD