.022 Roger Calderon

Roger is the genuine rockstar who I took over for at the LGBT Center here in NYC last Fall. As the outgoing Director of Special Events, Roger was (is/will always be) beloved and deeply appreciated by literally everyone at The Center and beyond. We had a few days of overlap and upon being introduced to countless new colleagues, folks would say “so you’re the new Roger,” and Roger would always reply that “No, he’s Brian, and he’s going to be wonderful.” His attention to that sort of comforting detail is one of a thousand ways that Roger is an outstanding person, and just how quickly he’s made an impact in my life after only knowing each other for (less than!) a year.

Roger is truly compassionate human, someone who cares so much about helping others and doing good, meaningful work that has a tangible and life-changing impact. He’s a hoot to be around, with a fabulous sense of humor and amazing personality. He looks out for you, serving constantly as a listening ear, a mentor, a friend, and helper; anything you might need him to be. I learned very quickly that he’s an expert playlist-maker, with a keen eye for the audience and groove. He listens with purpose and is unafraid to stand up for what’s right. He’s wildly talented and someone I have and will always be able to learn from.

Roger, thank you for making my transition into my role such a joyful process. You were so patient and willing to answer all (1,000) of my questions, and never once did you make me feel rushed. Thank you for setting me up for success by being the unbelievable producer that you are, and of course for your detailed notes and last-minute purchase of those two-columned notebooks. Thank you for believing in me and for having such a big heart. Thank you for being such a support for so many people, especially your family who, although I’ve never met them, I’m sure are extremely grateful to have you by their side. Thank you for our talks and moments of exhaustion on Cycle last year. Thank you for checking in on me and for just being an all-around good and kind human being. Thank you for being you.

-BD