.039 Rusty Harper

Whenever I see Rusty walking towards me, I’m always greeted with his lovely, comforting smile and I know everything’s going to be alright. He is such a warm and welcoming presence, maybe because of that southern charm, but definitely because it’s just in his nature to be sweet and kind. Rusty and I met through our gay soccer league, and I instantly knew he was someone I wanted to be around. He exudes a wonderful mixture of compassion, calmness, wit, joy, and sincerity.

Since we’ve known each other, i’ve been able to talk with Rusty about almost anything, from serious topics around work, relationships and being proudly open, to ridiculous and silly things that just make us laugh. I really came to adore him when we traveled to Chicago for a soccer tournament. He’s such an amazing athlete on the field, and then off the field he’s just incredibly fun, genuine and smart.

Rusty, thank you so much for being such a loyal and trustworthy friend. Thank you for truly giving me a kick in my step anytime I see you at the field, bar, wherever. Thank you for the amazing moments playing soccer together and for just being such a beautiful human being. Thank you for making me laugh every time I’m around you. I’m so grateful to have met you and to have you in my life. You really do make the world brighter. Thank you for being you.

-BD