.051 Stefan Betters

Let’s just get one thing out of the way… bombas! Stefan, much like that previous inside joke, just make the world better(s). Truly, Stefan’s existence has made my life more meaningful and fun since we met nearly exactly one year ago. When I started at The Center, he immediately welcomed me with an open mind and heart, an incredibly relaxed and calming aura, and a good amount of chuckles at my ridiculous jokes and voices.

As we continued to get to know each other, I quickly realized that I was very lucky to have a colleague like Stefan. Intelligent, diligent and extremely passionate, Stefan made any meeting, project or discussion better. He always has incredible insights and thoughts to offer, many of which no one thought of. He’s compassionate in his delivery and determined in his ambitions. His demeanor and presence is enough to make any room light up or feel just a little bit more positive. I gathered early on that Stefan is trustworthy and loyal, always willing to listen and pay attention to what you have to say.

Outside of the office, Stefan is just as delightful and even more of someone who I want to spend time around. He’s sharp and witty, and very much a cuddly teddy bear. He’s become a dear friend and someone who I am extremely grateful for and to have met in this chaotic and bustling city. When I think deeply about it, Stefan often reminds me of what’s good in the world, and what to strive for. He cares immensely about his partner, his family, and his world of friends. He cares just as much about fighting for the queer community and making the world a better place.

Stefan, thank you so very much for being that welcoming presence last year and for all the fun, insane, and sometimes sleep-deprived moments in and out of the office. Thank you for your partnership (and patience) with MASQ and for always knowing the right thing to say. Thank you for being such a thoughtful person who makes each day more exciting and joyful. Thank you for your wonderful smile and laugh and your fabulous personality. Thank you for inspiring me in more ways than you know. I’m so grateful for you and to you. Thank you for being the one-and-only you.

-BD